Intimacy problem what to do?

Bangladeshi Housewife from Dhanmondi seeks sex related consultancy from sex-guru. SMS: I’m Shaila 23 from Dhanmondi, Newly married. I don’t know abou sex and its practice. I had a few experience but that was fruitless. Give me advice. GURU: Intimacy is defined as the basis of friendship and one of the bases of love. It may take several forms. The two main forms of intimacy: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy. In some ways the two overlap, in that by being intimate physically, you are intimate emotionally. Emotional intimacy frequently involves individuals discussing their feelings and emotions with each other in order to gain understanding and offer mutual support. It is necessary for human beings to have this form of intimacy on a regular basis for them to develop and maintain good mental health. On the other hand physical intimacy arises when two people are physically close to each other. Examples include being physically near somebody so that you are in their personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing, and sexual activity. While sexual activity is a part of physical intimacy, it is not absolutely necessary to engage in sexual intercourse or even any sexual touching to be intimate. I will be using the term sexual activity to encompass sexual intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, and touching of a woman’s breasts. Whether or not you want to include individual forms of sexual activity in your definition is up to you. Two people can be intimate without engaging in sexual activity. One of the best ways to be intimate without sexual touching is through the use of asexual touching. Examples of asexual touching include: Holding hands Hugging Sitting on/next to or lying against each other Caressing such as one’s hair Cuddling Massaging a part of the body or even the entire body. Kissing All of the above activities can be done often and are a great way to be intimate with somebody you care deeply about. Once again, whether or not you want to include certain parts of sexual touching is up to you. But as you can see there are several other ways you can be physically intimate with another person. As I mentioned above, being intimate does not require touching. Intimate can be doing something to show your closeness to another person. Here are some more ideas to be close to another: Watch a movie Email, text message, IM, or better yet talk on the phone. Take a walk together Go for a bike ride Go out to dinner Make dinner together Watch a movie together Go for a picnic Cuddle in front of a fire Exercise together Go to the bookstore together Compliment each other Leave a rose on their car Go dancing together Do art together Stargaze together Look at pictures Run in the rain Go to the zoo, mall, or a museum together. Watch the sunset together Give a piggyback ride Feed each other chocolate covered fruits The list could go on forever, but the key thing is that being intimate is doing something together to show how close you are. Have fun with each other and remember it is never necessary to have sex to be intimate.